I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. But, as someone posted earlier we did not marry a physician completely for the status and money, we also expect as should any wife love and respect.
I'm afraid he's going to be more in love with work than me and a family. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds.
She doesn't want to marry you. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. All I can do is have Faith in Him. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior.
We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. Will things get better. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it.