He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. This is because they gave up the structure of what made them desirable in the first place. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens.
Rights of all genders are supported here. Because I make myself busy, and I think he would to, with other projects and activities. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. I am married to an ongologist for 16years. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. Now I don't get offended when he falls asleep when I come over - in fact, he puts his head in my lap and I run my hands through his hair until he falls asleep.
The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out. That was my experience. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture.
TwoXChromosomes submitted 4 years ago by datingprofession. Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on.