The 3rd time, I was a crying mess, which he has never seen me do so he knew he had royally blown it. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. This is really a conversation you need to have with him. Keep the relationship casual.
I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's. All these link from LDS. After a certain point "support" stops being supportive and turns into enabling - enabling of his depression, his anxiety, his reluctance to reflect deeply on who he is and what he wants out of life, and worst of all, my "support" ensures his continuation into a career that will not ultimately make him or me happy.
Start doing little things even when you are not there. If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. But at the hospital, I'm helping the other guy who was injured when his car wrecked six hours ago, and I can't just bail.
It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. Ultimately we broke up. And some will do that. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. I always feel like I am last. Thanks for sharing your experiences.