When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. Facebook Email Twitter Print. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. I often think about what I would tell my daughters if one day they tell me that they are dating a doctor……. Actually, Mormon families are shrinking, just like those outside the Church, but they will always be larger than families outside Mormondom. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different.
If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. That's all we're really saying. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. I hope it all works out for you. Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. I have been married with a doc for 4 years, we have been moving every year due to his fellowship, residency and so on, i have been losing job opportinities and living with no families,friends around due to his career. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work.
But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. Go miserably explore a foreign country by myself wishing my husband was with me. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. Did my heart good. I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - I think it is going to be a long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families. Follow your heart and live life with no regrets.
Hi I think you are all lucky to marry a Doctor. I'm not married to a doctor, but have been with one through her training and early years 5 years - she's currently in her first year of speciality training as a paediatrician this is in the UK by the way. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. But marriages don't last if you have to hold back ugly, sarcastic comments when your partner attends religious services or defends religious beliefs.